Tuesday, October 1, 2024

As our parents and loved ones grow older, many of us find ourselves taking on new caregiving responsibilities. This can be a challenging transition, both emotionally and practically. However, there are ways to navigate this process and ensure our older relatives receive the support they need.

According to Laura Tamblyn Watts, President and CEO of CanAge, and author of the book "Let's Talk About Aging Parents," one of the most important things is to have open conversations with your parents about their wishes and preferences as they age. "It's crucial to have those difficult conversations early on, before a crisis hits," she explains. "Find out what matters most to them - whether that's staying in their own home, receiving in-home care, or eventually moving to a retirement residence."

Tamblyn Watts also emphasizes the importance of involving your parents in the decision-making process as much as possible. "They should be active participants, not just passive recipients of care. Validate their autonomy and make sure their voices are heard."

In addition to having open dialogues, it's helpful to research the various resources and organizations available to support older adults and their caregivers. CanAge, Canada's National Seniors' Advocacy Organization, is one such group that provides a wealth of information and guidance.

"CanAge works to empower and protect older Canadians, advocating for their rights and connecting them with the services and support they need," says Laura Tamblyn Watts, who also serves as the organization's CEO. "Whether it's navigating the healthcare system, accessing home care, or finding financial assistance, CanAge can be an invaluable resource."

Other important considerations when caring for aging parents include:

• Assessing their living situation and whether modifications are needed to ensure safety and accessibility
• Coordinating medical appointments and medication management
• Providing emotional support and combating isolation
• Ensuring legal and financial affairs are in order

The journey of caring for older parents can be complex, but with the right information, resources, and support, it is possible to provide the best possible care while also maintaining your own wellbeing. The key is to approach it with empathy, patience, and a commitment to honouring your parents' wishes and autonomy.

For more information and support, visit the CanAge website at CanAge.ca.